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How to Keep the Fire Stoked



Let’s get real for a second. Married life is amazing, right? You’ve found your person, your partner-in-crime, and you’re doing life together. But let’s be honest—after a few years (or maybe a few kids), that initial spark might start to feel more like… a steady flicker. And that’s totally normal! Life has a way of throwing a million things at us—work, bills, church commitments, the endless pile of laundry—and sometimes, our marriage ends up on the back burner. But guess what? It doesn’t have to stay there!


The Beauty of Connection in Christian Marriage

God designed marriage to be this incredible, intimate relationship. It’s meant to be a place where we can be fully known and fully loved—spiritually, emotionally, and physically. But over time, that connection can get a little rusty if we’re not intentional about nurturing it. Think about it like this: We don’t expect our faith to grow without spending time with God, right? Well, it’s the same with marriage. We can’t expect our connection to deepen if we’re not pouring into it.


So, what’s the solution? How do we move from “just getting by” to actually thriving together as a couple? That’s where Unite & Ignite comes in.


What is Unite & Ignite?

If you’re new here, let us fill you in. Unite & Ignite is our monthly subscription program designed specifically for Christian couples who want to deepen their connection in fun, meaningful, and yes—sometimes even spicy—ways! Each month, we bring you a brand new theme and a series of challenges that are all about creating intimacy, building trust, and rediscovering each other in fresh ways. It’s like having a personal guide to help you prioritize your marriage and add a bit of spark back into your routine.


We know marriage can sometimes feel like a balancing act, but that’s why we created this—so you don’t have to figure it all out alone.



Here’s What You Can Expect in Unite & Ignite

Let’s get into the good stuff! Each month, you’ll get a new set of daily connection prompts and activities that keep things interesting. We balance the deep and meaningful with the lighthearted and fun, giving you a well-rounded approach to intimacy. Think of it like a workout for your marriage (but way more enjoyable)!



Let’s give you a sneak peek of some of the kinds of challenges you’ll find in Unite & Ignite:


  1. Daily Gratitude Challenge: Some days, it’s the simple things. We’ll ask you to write down one thing you appreciate about each other—something you might have overlooked in the busyness of life. These little reminders go a long way in nurturing a grateful heart towards each other.

  2. Playful Connection Prompts: Remember the fun you had back when you were dating? We bring some of that back with playful prompts. One of our favorites? A scavenger hunt around the house for little “love notes” you leave for each other. Or maybe a game where every compliment leads to a little… reward. 😉

  3. Spice-It-Up Challenges: Let’s talk intimacy. Yep, that kind. Each month, we bring in fun, tasteful ways to connect physically. One month might be focused on different kinds of touch, while another month could have a theme of “exploration,” where you and your spouse get to know each other in new ways. It’s all done with the understanding that physical intimacy is a beautiful part of God’s design for marriage.

  4. Faith-Focused Exercises: Unite & Ignite isn’t just about the physical—our faith plays a huge role too. We include activities like a “pray together” challenge or Bible verse reflections that help you grow together spiritually. You’ll find that when you connect with God as a couple, it naturally brings you closer in other areas too.

  5. Big Date Ideas: Need a little adventure? Each month, we suggest a “Big Date” idea that you can plan out with a babysitter (or just some time away). These dates are a little more elaborate and designed to get you both out of your usual routine. Picture a cozy evening camping in your backyard, complete with s’mores, stargazing, and uninterrupted conversation.



Why Join Unite & Ignite?

Maybe you’re wondering, “Why do I need a subscription for this? Can’t I just find ideas online?” And you totally could! But let’s be honest—between Googling “couples connection ideas,” pinning things on Pinterest, and actually remembering to do the things, it’s easy to lose momentum. Unite & Ignite takes all the guesswork out and gives you everything you need in one easy-to-follow package. It’s like having a friend cheer you on, reminding you to make your marriage a priority.



Plus, we’re here to make it enjoyable. We mix things up every month so it never feels repetitive, and you get to be a part of a community of other Christian couples who are also on this journey of connection and growth. You’re not alone in this—there’s a whole group of people who believe, just like you, that their marriage is worth investing in.



Join Us in Rediscovering Your Marriage

So, if you’re ready to move past the mundane and get intentional about your marriage, we’d love to have you join Unite & Ignite. Think of it as your monthly dose of marriage encouragement—a space to reconnect, reignite, and bring that God-given spark back to your relationship.

Just click the link below to get started. Let’s make this month the beginning of something beautiful for your marriage!


Ready to join Unite & Ignite? Click here to subscribe and start your journey towards a more connected, passionate, and Christ-centered marriage!


Marriage doesn’t have to feel routine. With a little intention and some creative ideas, you can keep that spark alive for years to come. We can’t wait for you to experience all that Unite & Ignite has to offer. Here’s to a marriage that doesn’t just survive—but thrives. ❤️

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