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Power of a Praying Couple

Building Unity, Intimacy and Strength


When we think of a successful marriage, we often envision two people sharing life's journey. But there's a third presence essential in this partnership — God. Anchored in the Bible's wisdom, such as in Matthew 18:20 (NIV), "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them," we find that prayer isn't just a solitary practice but a unifying force in marriage.


Why is prayer in marriage so transformative? It goes beyond a shared routine or whispered blessings before meals. Prayer is the spiritual glue in a marriage, a conduit for grace, guidance, and growth. Reflect on Mark 10:8, which speaks of "two becoming one flesh." Prayer takes this concept further, facilitating a deep, spiritual connection that transcends physical or emotional bonds.


The Power of Collective Prayer


Delving into Matthew 18:19-20, we're reminded of the promise that accompanies collective prayer: God's presence. Imagine that — the Creator of the universe takes note when couples pray! This isn't just routine; it's revolutionary. It's an invitation to witness God's power and presence in your relationship.


So, what are the practical benefits of couples praying together?

  1. Unity: Sharing your heart in prayer is an act of vulnerability, fostering a unique bond and fighting spiritual battles together.

  2. Guidance: It’s a joint venture in seeking God’s will, making decisions that honor Him and benefit your family.

  3. Learning: Discover more about each other and how God communicates uniquely with you both, enhancing your appreciation for each other's spiritual gifts.

The Importance of Personal Prayer


Prayer within marriage isn't just a couple's activity; personal prayer is equally crucial. Your spiritual life shouldn't be wholly dependent on your partner. Engaging with God individually allows you to intercede for your spouse, seek wisdom on loving them better, and maintain your spiritual identity.


The Intimacy of Praying Aloud


There’s something profoundly intimate about hearing your partner pray. It’s a window into their soul, their hopes, fears, and faith. Yes, it might feel awkward initially, but it’s a shared awkwardness that breeds intimacy, both emotional and spiritual.


However, a word of caution: this is sacred ground. Respect and gentleness are crucial. Mocking or belittling your spouse’s prayers can cause deep hurt. Approach this practice with the care it deserves, understanding the power of your words, reminiscent of the creative power of speech showcased in the Bible's opening chapters.


Practical Tips for Embarking on Joint Prayer


Never prayed together before? Here are some easy steps:

  • Start Simple: Try reading a Psalm out loud together.

  • Schedule Your Prayer Time: Make it as routine as checking your phones.

  • Choose a Convenient Time: Maybe it’s in the quiet of the morning or the peace of bedtime.

  • Practice Makes Perfect: The more you do it, the more natural it becomes.

  • Communicate: Discuss your prayer topics beforehand.

  • Stay Organized: Keep a prayer list or use prayer cards.

  • Expect Great Things: God honors prayer. Approach it with expectancy.

Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all method. Prayer is deeply personal, and God values our authenticity more than our eloquence.


Final Thoughts


While collective spiritual life is vital, it should never overshadow your individual relationship with God. He should be your first priority, even before your spouse. Maintain your personal faith walk, because a strong individual relationship with God forms the foundation of a robust spiritual life as a couple.


In our marriages, we've found these practices not just beneficial, but transformative. We invite you to share in this blessing, to grow closer to each other and God through the beautiful, shared journey of prayer.


And if you need guidance or inspiration, don’t hesitate to check out resources like our ebooks for structured, meaningful ways to incorporate prayer into your daily life!


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