Hey there,
Mismatched libidos? You’re not alone.
If one of you wants sex way more often than the other, it can feel frustrating, confusing, and even a little personal. Maybe you’re the one who’s always in the mood (and feeling rejected), or maybe you’re the one who just doesn’t desire sex as often (and feeling guilty about it). Either way—this is a super common struggle, and there are real ways to navigate it together.
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Sexual desire isn’t always a perfect match in marriage, but that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to frustration forever. With the right tools, conversations, and mindset shifts, you and your spouse can find a rhythm that works for both of you.
Episodes to Listen to
Resources
Come As You Are
by Emily Nagoski
This is a great book, based on science, that will give you a lot of new information about how you both are unique and how you can work together to make a great sex life.
Make note, this isn't a Christian book and so won't share all the same values. However, it its written in a respectful way.
Things to Check Out
Here are some things that may be worth checking out if you're struggling with purity culture lies:
A great worldwide counselling service that has affordable rates.
A Christian counselling service where all the therapists are trained in sex therapy.